We
all know that sometimes (maybe all the time), women get a little bit
crazy, (especially near their periods). Many men around the world are
wondering how to treat women. We all know that you can never be sure
what a woman wants so, being a woman I've decided to share some of my
tips.
Be
gentle
Never
focus your attention on the negative things your she does or used to
do. Not only you feel disappointment when you see only the mistakes
she does but you will attract even more of them. Women don't like to
feel their being tested all the time. Just be in the present moment
and try to see only the positives. By complaining she only feels
lost wanting to give up. Some women when they truly love their partner,
they try really hard to change themselves to make their partners happier. So reward them by noticing their actions rather
than complaining about the past.
Talk
Never
push her to do something that she doesn't want to do. Instead, try to have
a conversation with her and always act with love without offending
her. Explain your views and try to find solutions, like
exercising together or create a bobby together that will benefit both of you.
She really likes a creative man and she pays attention to the details.
Don't
compare her with others
Never
compare her with another woman and never say anything negative
about her body even if you have no intention to hurt her. Trust me
women know exactly what needs to be changed and they do
things without you knowing so, you only make it worse.
Be
honest
Never
lie. If you lie to her or hide your phone when she is she starts to
have trust issues and guess what's coming next!
Let
her love you
There
are times that you don't feel like talking much. We get it, we are
not the only ones getting emotional once a month. Just express your
feelings to her. She can't read your mind (yet). Let her hug you,
don't push her away, she might thinks that she did something wrong.
Pay
attention to her
Never
ignore her when she shares a part of herself with you. Pay attention
to her, be happy because you see her smiling. When you play games
together, be there with your mind as well! Women usually don't want
to have your attention all day long so don't feel like you must be
there all the time. We all want time by ourselves. Just dedicate some
of your time and be fully present there. Also a sweet text message during the
day can make her smile for hours. Boosting her confidence is
always a good thing. You want her to feel elevated by you.
Be present
When
she is emotional or upset, be there even if she does't show that she wants
you there. Deep down she really does and she expects you to, hug her
kiss her and tell her how much you love her no matter what's
happening. If you do that she feels safe and trusted because when
everything's falling apart she wants to know you are there.
Don't
Tease her
Women are more sensitive near their periods. The
usual playful banter must cease while a watered-down version of this
banter may take its place. The reason for this is because she might
take something you say jokingly to heart.
Unintentional
offences are at a high risk near your girlfriend’s period. This is
another cause for the next World War III. Also when you say , ' I'm sorry' say it because you mean it not because you want the conversation to come to an end.
Debate
things?
A
healthy debate is not a bad thing. It’s a great way to express
opinions, feelings and share your worldview with your significant
other. But if your girl is near her period, it’s probably best not
to get her riled up on how she feels about hot topics (or anything,
for that matter).
There
are a myriad of other things to talk about anyway, like the weather
and what she wants to eat for dinner (and dessert). :P
Sentences
to avoid:
- ''That Time Of The Month?''
- “Are You Really Going To Eat All That?”
- “I Don’t Care.”
- “You’re Crazy.”
- “Have You Gained Weight?”
- “Will You Marry Me?”
Periods turn women into crazy, moody creatures that either want to eat ice cream and pizza all day or want to die and be left alone for all of eternity.Your girlfriend is not going to feel her best because her tummy’s cramping, her boobs are hurting and she might be a little bloated.
It’s hard to guess at any moment in time what your girlfriend is feeling, so try not to smother her with your love. I’m sure she appreciates all of the grand gestures of kindness through chocolate bars and Sour Patch but don't over do it.
For example, instead of saying, “Hey! Here’s a chocolate bar because I know you’re on your period,” you should probably just leave it on the kitchen counter for her to find. It’s the little things that have the greatest impact during these times.
If
I forgot anything write it on the comments below :) I hope my article
was helpful! *Smiles*
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